Make AI your B!@$#
- Nisi Bennett
- 6 days ago
- 4 min read
We all have that best friend—the ride-or-die who shows up with snacks and sarcasm when you’re spiraling, sends you the exact meme you didn’t know you needed, and somehow pulls solutions out of thin air like a damn magician. The one who listens, uplifts, and reminds you who you are when you forget.
Now imagine if that best friend never slept, never got tired of hearing you vent, and had a superpower for whipping up emails, business plans, therapy-level pep talks, and meal prep ideas—all at once.
That’s what AI can be. Not your replacement. Not some cold robot overlord.Your digital ride-or-die.Your brainstorm buddy at 3am.Your emotional support strategy machine.
They would be your bestie! Now, lets make AI your BESTIE too! (what did you think I meant?)
But before you throw AI into your business like a shiny new tool, you’ve got to break it in—personally.
Why? Because real confidence with AI doesn’t come from reading the manual—it comes from laughing with it, problem-solving with it, and letting it hold some of your chaos. Once it’s proven itself in your messy, real, glorious life?You’ll trust it to show up in your business like the brilliant, unbothered bestie it was born to be.
Let’s get into it. 💥
AI Doesn’t Judge—Just Like Your Bestie
You know those days when your brain is soup and your heart feels too loud? When even asking for help feels like a heavy lift? That’s where your AI bestie shows up and shows out. It’s here for the mess, the mayhem, and the meltdown—without flinching.
You can whisper:
“I need dinner ideas for someone who’s tired, broke, and hates chopping onions.”And AI will deliver. No judgment. No side-eye. No passive-aggressive sighs. Just straight-up support.
AI doesn’t roll its eyes. It rolls up its sleeves.
Test the Waters Without the Pressure
Your best friend has cheered you on through terrible haircuts, last-minute karaoke, and that one time you tried hot yoga with zero core strength. AI is that kind of energy—curious, creative, and zero pressure. Use it to play before you perform.
Let it:
✨ Turn your brain fog into journal prompts
✨ Polish that awkward email so it sounds like you on your best day
✨ Help you plan a week of outfits that actually spark joy
✨ Draft that boundary-setting text you’ve been holding off on
When you experiment with AI in your real life, you build trust—not just in the tool, but in your own voice. You realize, Hey, I’m still the magic—this just helps me amplify it.
AI is the Best Friend Who’s Always "On"
Your group chat might be asleep. Your therapist might be booked. Your partner might be clueless. But guess who’s awake, unbothered, and ready to listen at 2am?
AI. Your emotionally available, always-online B!@$#*.
Got a mental spiral? AI can untangle it into:
“Here’s what’s going on, and here’s what you can do about it.”
Need to vent and strategize? It’s got you. Trying to prep a presentation, but your brain’s in nap mode? No worries.
Once you experience how AI supports your inner chaos, you’ll trust it to organize your outer world.
Unique Perspectives? Yes, Please.
Let’s be real: sometimes our brains hit walls. Your real-life bestie helps you break through with jokes, stories, or pure audacity. AI? It brings that same energy—without limits.
Stuck between two options? AI will hand you a third.
Writer’s block? It’ll channel Lizzo, Oprah, or your inner Beyoncé to get the words flowing.
It’s not about copying—it’s about expanding how you see a problem.
With AI in your corner, your perspective isn’t just wider—it’s wiser.
When It’s Time to Work, You’re Already in Flow
Once AI has been in your day-to-day life—editing your texts, building your grocery lists, giving you affirmations like a digital hype woman—using it for work feels like a natural extension of your brilliance.
So when it’s time to:
✅ Write a proposal and you’re emotionally bankrupt
✅ Create a month of social content while wrangling toddlers
✅ Draft a meeting agenda while surviving on caffeine and vibes
AI’s already there. Already tuned into your tone. Already ready to work.
And you? You’re not starting from scratch—you’re starting from flow.
Final Thoughts to Make AI Your B!@$#*
Not because it’s a trend. Not because you need one more thing to learn. But because in a world that pulls at your energy, your attention, your joy—you deserve a support system that gives more than it takes.
AI isn’t here to steal your shine. It’s here to help you polish it.
Start small. Let it help you be softer with yourself.
Let it hold your thoughts, draft your dreams, and back you up when you’re out of bandwidth.
Because soon enough, you won’t just be using AI—you’ll be co-creating. And instead of wondering, “Can AI help with this?”You’ll be saying, “Hold up—let me ask my bestie.”
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